Have you ever heard of any submissive women who already own homes and have masters move in with them?
No, I personally haven't, but I'm sure there have been instances where something like that has happened. Personally I think that under the right circumstances there is nothing wrong with that. I also believe that there are some things which would make it a very bad idea.
When it could be bad…
1. If the Master is moving in because he can not support himself. Meaning he doesn't have a job, or doesn't make enough to be able to support himself, even if with state assistance.
2. If expectations regarding ownership are not worked out beforehand.
3. If there is a lack of trust.
4. If the relationship is not strong enough to withstand the complications of living with each other 24/7.
When it can be great…
1. If the decision is come to because the Master knows his slave has worked hard to get to the point of owning a house and doesn't want to take that accomplishment away from her.
2. If it makes sense logistically. Such as the Master has an apartment, the slave has a house… it might make more sense for the Master to move in with the slave than the other way around.
3. Trust is at a level that enables this transition to work as smoothly as possible.
4. If the relationship is loving and strong enough to withstand the frustrations and complications of living with each other.
These are my humble thoughts on the matter. I wonder if any readers can answer this question better than I can? Does anyone know of someone in this situation or someone that has been there done that?
3 comments:
To whomever asked this question, I'm sorry it took me so long to answer. I couldn't decide if I would just say no and leave it at that, or voice my opinions on the matter. And then I couldn't decide how much to say about what I thought or how to say it. I hope my thoughts are helpful to you!
Alice
I think mouse owns the house that she and Omega live in.I have also found her recent blogs about buying the summer house interesting in terms of how their D/s dynamic works.
child of God, you are right! I hadn't thought of that at all. Whoever asked this question might be better to turn to mouse for an answer or advice.
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