My name is Alice. I am the loving wife and bondmate of my husband Brandon. The term bondmate was coined by two friends to describe a submissive who is in a loving 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship with his or her spouse or life partner. It came about because we were looking for a term that didn't present itself in a possible negative way as "slave" sometimes does, and yet the term "submissive" seems too general, covering so many different levels of submission. Therefore two friends went on a search for a simple term to cover the points we felt were important: loving, 24/7 TPE submissive, and a lifetime commitment. For me lifetime commitment means no exceptions, no divorce, no separation. There is no way out of this. 24/7 TPE means for me that there is not a moment in time when I do not belong to Brandon, when I am not subject to serving him, pleasing him, and seeking to obey him. Every millisecond, of every second, of every minute, of every hour, of every day, of every week, of every month, of every year in our lifetime I submit to him and he owns and leads me.
I am also mother to my first born son (hopefully a few others will follow in the many years to come) whom I call my Mister, my Precious, and my Cuddle Bug. Cuddle Bug is only a few months old now, and has completely turned our life upside down, but all in a good way. He is the love of our lives and so important to us. He will never see anything but two loving parents who respect each other and serve each other to their fullest. We will make it clear enough that Brandon is "the Boss" and he has final say, but all other aspects of our chosen lifestyle will remain unknown to him. Above all our son is most important to us.
I am a Christian. I believe that I was born a sinner, unworthy to stand before God, but in His mercy Christ came to earth in order to save me from my sin by taking it all upon himself and dying on the cross at Calvary. I believe that 3 days later He rose from the dead, proving that He was no mere man but God in the flesh. "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things came into being through Him, and apart from Him nothing came into being that has come into being. In Him was life, and the life was the Light of men. " John 1:1-4
To sum me up in several words: I am a bondservant of Christ, a bondmate to Brandon, a masochist, a monster (albeit a sweet one), a child, a woman, a mother, a sister, a daughter, and a friend.
